(April 2012 CEO Newsletter) By Joshua Scott Onysko
Recently I’ve noticed my mind creating a system to weigh each experience that I have. When I observe the process, I notice that it begins with taking the immediate outcome versus the long term advantage into account. I’ve noticed that the long term advantage tends to supersede any previously held thoughts or conceptions I might have had. In theory, our mind’s ability to sort through the millions of experiences we have every day is quite remarkable…or is it? I’ve been trying to break the patterns in my own mind since I was 15; they tend to hinder rather than contribute to my growth as a human being. As a culture, it seems that holding onto old paradigms tends to only hold us back.
Let’s take a closer look at why we often cling to what we know (or what we think we know). When we are born, our truths are directly taken from our immediate surroundings. We have no choice but to trust in what is familiar to us. As we grow older we start to reach out, creating our own understanding of the world. At some point, most of us cultivate an understanding of concepts and ideals that make us feel “comfortable” and we stick to them.
“Breaking open the head” has been an extremely important part of my life. It’s a concept that my friend Daniel Pinchbeck explains in his book of the same title. It boils down to this: allow yourself to truly experience everything and everyone else around you without judgment or preconceived notions. Freedom awaits those who free their minds.
Enjoy the trip.
Joshua Scott Onysko